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11 Okt 2009

The Signs Of Having An Unhappy Marriage

By Katie Cheung

People always want to have perfect marriage. Having a happy marriage isn't that easy, it needs lots of efforts. There are many symptoms which can prove an unhappy marriage. I am going to talk about some symptoms, if you find both you and your partner got them, it is necessary for you to beware of your marriage.

The first and the most obvious sign is that the husband and wife always disagree with each other. Having a unhappy marriage, people usually offend and do not respect to each other. Some people will hurt the other person by pernicious actions. For example, swear or even physically hurt the other. This will cause destructive effect to their future.

Besides, when any one partner stops communicate with the other as usually, the marriage may already fill with unhappiness. Stop talking to each other, argue strongly or even keep a distance with each other also shows that an unhappy marriage is appeared. Couples try to become individual. They won't share what they are thinking. They try to fill their life with busyness because they don't want to face the real issues directly.

When people are having an unhappy marriage, they always talk about privacy. You should be aware if your spouse walks away when he or she receive phone call or stops answering the call when you appear. A normal couple has a plan and future together. Hence, they should share their feelings and wishes to each other. Otherwise, they cannot maintain a health marriage.

If you find out that your partner would like to spend more time with friends rather than you, it means that there are problems in your marriage. Moreover, your partner may even do anything in order to escape from you. Long working hours, staying alone with friends and prevent attending any parties are some indications of a dissatisfied marriage. Escapism is often recognized if one often behaves in that one.

When your partners don't show their love to you with actions, like hugs, kiss or compliments. Your marriage is no longer passionate anymore. Your spouse may compare you with others or extol others in front of you. Your partner may even don't want to sleep with you together. Absence of intimacy shows your relationship is lacking of emotional connection. It is undeniable that the period of honeymoon can't last forever, but you can't let your spouse becomes disinterest in you. Lack of intimacy is a sign of marital discontent.

Having an affair is undeniably destroying a marital relationship. Trust is vital in a relationship and once it is destroyed, it is extremely difficult to redevelop it. Dishonesty between couples often attribute to an undesirable marriage. If you find your partner changing her complexion suddenly or receiving some private phone calls, you must be alerted.

An unhappy marriage occurs easily. If you have impractical expectations at the beginning and cannot be satisfied, your fantastic marriage will turn into an unhappy marriage soon. There are also examples show couple lose interest in the mate gradually. After reading this article, hope that you can find out any problems in your marriage immediately and repair your relationship soon.

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